Hey painter,

I'm sorry you here with us but it's a good place to be. I got together with my H in 1987 and married in 1990 so we're on the same timeline.

It seems obvious your W is definately over her head into an EA and pretty sure it's become physical - if they are denying well - it only makes sense that they are willing to break up their family so you know it's gotten pretty deep. I know mine denies the physical but I do not believe.

Keep reading here there is alot of great info and things to be learned from others' situations. Stay focused on YOU and the kids. Do not try and "talk" to her about your relationship. Try not to call her for anything unless you absolutely have to.

Stay strong and keep us posted.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10