I know, but really my question is if they have no job and dont pay child support how do we get any help with supporting our children?......he is so stupid, all he had to do was help support our daughter...its as if he hears it from a judge then that will make it ok to pay for her support???? what a way of thinking...you know he told me the other day he wasnt mad about going to court for child support, he knew he had to...so why doesnt he????if he knows this why go to court over it....like I said it is like if the judge orders him to then he will.....they are strange thinkers arent they.....