Nik you will see when you read the draft I sent, we set up a specific rotating schedule of visitation. My attorney said if we wanted to do 'reasonable'/'flexible' visitation, we still could, but if the stuff hit the fan, we would have the OFFICIAL visitation plan in writing to enforce/fall back on.
HalfMissing, how did you meet your current fiance? I work at an estrogen-heavy elementary school so not a lot of fish in my current pond...