I remember Michelle saying in one of her books that she used to dread coming home from trips because her H always was a bit grumpy and had a list of things that went wrong. She decided to practice what she preaches and acted as if things would be nice and calm when he greeted her...and they were.

We often set things up in our heads and create just the opposite experience that we wanted because we play out the way things have always been.

Give him the hoecoming that you both deserve.

hugs, kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory