if he REALLY wanted to see Ryan more often - why not just "be there" on scheduled visits. If he came every time and still wanted more - that would be a different scenario - especially if he actually wanted to "help" not hinder.
Great point Barb!, thats it in a nutshell- I know from knowing you these past 7 yrs Chuck seems to cancel a lot- so now wants to make waves about more visitation? action not words like you said, maybe if he would ask to take Ryan swimming or some activity you may believe he is serious!
I take it you havent heard anything more?
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