Wow - thats a lot you had to deal with - thinking of you and hoping you find some strength. Take a deep breath if you have to - I do. Isn't it amazing how we get those "this is what you expected", "didn't you know this", "how can u not see this" statements? What seems obvious to them is just that - only obvious in their minds....... hang tough - I can feel the pain you are going thru in the words. Like missherlove said above - we are taking the brave and harder road - and we just can't give up what we know in our hearts to be true. Back to work - but hang in there.......

I only read the six stages of MLC - have to look at the rest of those links as well.... later.....


Me: 48
W: 47
M: 25 years T: 30 years
S24, D21, D11
Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09
Separated Feb 2010