I agree. He is so hostile to me one day and nice the next. Mostly it was because Ihad done NC. He said he'd fight me if I didn't work "with" him on kids. I don't want to see him, don't want to talk to him, it's so hard when kids are involved. My kids are having a really hard time and are reacting to stress, he has a right to know what is going on, but I don't want to tell him. Does he hear it anyway honestly? How do you coparent with someone like this? D12 found out before I did, because OW has a big mouth. She likes to create drama. D12 found her on her daddy's FB page to start things off. She should never have known and that is what I told H. He said he will handle it. So frustrating. OW is going through custody battle and I spoke with her x. She even TOLD him what was goin on. Sick.
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.