dburt,

thanks for those suggestions. I did in fact do everything you mentioned from the new hair style to new clothes to going out.

Maybe she did noticed them but she has not commented on any of them(NOT that I'm Looking for her to say something.)

I have always been soft spoken in our R. Not expressing my feeling to her. If did something that annoys me I would not say anything. This way I would avoid an arguement.

I know that healthy M can have arguements.
No two people are going to get along 100% of the time.

That brings me back to me telling her about my issues and what I'm doing to address them. This would be a 180 for me.

I am mad at myself b/c she has mentioned to me in the past about my slepping disorder and I did nothing about it.

Are dead set against me telling her that?

I have an IC tomorrow night(Weather permitting.) This will be my first with a new IC.

My DB coach suggested I see one to discuss my anxiety.

I think she incovered something I can build on.

Thanks again for checking in on me. It means a lot.
gr8


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