Allen,
Thank you. When I got home last night, my H was asleep. I woke him up and he left without a word, which was nice. Not even hi or bye. I was prepared with what I would say if he brought up M or D so in a way I was disappointed I didn't get to say what I wanted too. However, I know I will get the chance soon. He looks so run down and I know it's because he stays up to visit her until after midnight (I know this from his mom) and then has to get up at 5:30 am to go to work. Honestly, how long does he think he can keep this up?

There should be NC with today. However, I will see him tomorrow, which is my bday and his night with the kids. He has his IC tomorrow night so I was planning on staying home to watch the kids for him while he went. But I'm thinking of asking him if I can have his night with the kids since it's my bday. And telling him I would rather not see him at all on that day. What do you think?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10