Just one note: you've started multiple threads which makes it difficult to keep up with you. Choose *one* thread to maintain, and post everything there. Post your questions there. If you post on other people's sitches, they'll post on yours.

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!