I don't know that I have ever posted to you, but have read along. I just wanted you to know that I'm sorry that your wife has let your M and R evolve (or, better word, dissolve) to this...
HUGS and find a way for some peace and happiness.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.