DID XH M OW or not??

[peacetoday]

still No word from xh
He continues to NOT answer calls from the kids
I have heard nothing more from his mother I believe he is living with OWWife in the west where her family is
maybe I assume he is starting over
trying to toatally wipe his children off his history and pretending he never had them
this is 3 years post bomb
I have heard he is drinking again

as for us
my kids continue to be OK
my son NEVER asks about him
my teenagae D does not call him anymore
he abandoned them in November never said goodbye..that was typical of his avoidence behavior of the crises
my kids are doing ok from what I can see
they both do well in school and socialize on reguarly
we seem to be connected and close the 3 of us

as for me
I am happy
Our business is doing well
I work daily in it and enjoy it so much
The business has restoered many lost customers from when xh was here and his behavior was so eratic that we lost so many customers
I continue to seek spiritual guidence
my R is going well with BF--I have know him almost a year
I am not looking for any committments or snotyher M
Just enjoyiong a friendship and focusing on taking care of my world and keeping my sides of the streets clean
all is well
so where ever you are in the journey, know that you will be ok and find your way with or without H
peace