Thanks KD..I have one whole years worth of notes in a calendar/journal and started another year.
Exh has been really distant. Great for me. Only hear from him once or so a day, and its usually in the late afternoon when he is off work. Very rarely do I get the 'goodnight to baby' texts.
Life is going pretty smoothly. Wish my money tree in the backyard would bear fruit..just enough to be comfortable. Kids are good..so life is just rolling along. Feels so good to break free and have my own life and not all of my emotions tied into one hugely dysfunctional man!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!