My neice communicates some with my kids mom. She's a young 24 y/o. She feels like I get mad at her for doing so. She has communicated this to my kids mom. I get a nastygram after midnight tonight from my kids mom telling me that my neice told her this, and then she throws it up in my face, word for word, the texts that I've been sending her recently (with help from you all) telling her that I still care for her...and finishes it by saying "you love me, huh? Is that why neice is not "allowed" to talk to me since you will get pissed at her if she does? If that's how you love then I'd hate to see how you dislike. Wait...I already have."
I've felt good about the texts that I've sent her recently...she's referred to them several times during subsequent communication with me. I'd like to negate the negativity communicated to her from my neice without going into detail, and still reiterate my feelings for her in a way that would be compassionate and honest, but without seeming weak and pursuing.
Could you folks please help?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
