Acceptable contact while GD?

[amg2]

Does all of this apply in reverse when a man is questioning the marriage and the wife is the LBH? Kind of applies to my thread on "Last Resort Technique Modified".

I'm very confused if I should be doing 180s or LRT or both. (DB Coach Chuck said an LRT that isn't "Mean spririted" is good but I'm wondering if I didn't understand the 180s. He didn't use that term but did say my husband would think he knew exactly how I'd respond to everything and never change.

Thanks