Being generous was what I did the most a few years ago but he took advantage of that. Ryan swam every day and with nurse scheduling, day program etc - it conflicted with the times he wanted to see Ryan. So we had to cancel his swim those days. And his dad cancelled on him last minute more often than not. It was disruptive.
Chuck is rude. The nurses do not like him. He criticizes everything they do and trust me - I have a wonderful group of girls working with Ryan at present - they take excellent care of him and Chuck should be grateful for that - not try to verbally abuse them.
That said - if he REALLY wanted to see Ryan more often - why not just "be there" on scheduled visits. If he came every time and still wanted more - that would be a different scenario - especially if he actually wanted to "help" not hinder.
But every fiber of me says that he is just spewing as usual and not a thing will ever come of it. Besides - I'd be the first to know. My sis is receptionist at his L's office. She certainly takes herself out of the scene but answers the phone if he calls.
Chuck loves to spew. It is what he does best. I try to just duck!
