Well perhaps I'm just finally letting go. You're right Freckle - I don't have to make a decision. I just have to keep on the path I'm on - which is one of self respect. Going to keep up the not taking bait theme - and the walking away with or without S when he gets abusive. And, I'm going to go a bit dark like I said because I want to pull back and really let him have his freedom to think this through, look at himself instead of blaming me, and realize he must treat me better.
Thank you for being with me folks.
found a great website by the author of "Love Must BE Tough" = now I want to read the book! Reconfirms the DB principles...
