CG, I think I'm understanding what you're writing and I thank you for your thoughts.
Originally Posted By: CityGirl
Generally speaking when a LBS starts to realize they need to be just as tough on the WAS as they are themselves life gets better for the LBS. You stop caring and nitpicking and searching for clues and making excuses and realize there is NOTHING you can do except work on you and eliminate any "work" towards the WAS until they are ready to participate and show ample and concrete effort.
So what specific actions would get me there (in addition to talking to my IC)? Or is it a process?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
