Just a quick couple of things to add. I am not looking for a mom for my kids incase you were thinking that was what I was saying. I simply made that comment because my opinion of my W has grown so low, it just came out.
Also, my dad is all for the M coming back together, but he also supports me in whatever I decide at this point as long as I submit through the church process which is what I would do. He worries about my girls through this as they are obviously the ones that will be affected the most by any decision I choose to make. I worry about them to. It is a very hard position to be in weighing everything from their perspective and mine.
But I am just very close to a point where a decision has to be made and moved forward with.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...