Most women might want what DQ describes as the alpha male, but not all. My wife was always turned off by what she describes as alpha male behavior. She's head of a department at work.
Yeah, I'm in the prefer alpha male in bed club. I DON'T prefer it at work though. Totally different situation.
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I understand that working for an alpha male is not something you would prefer.
Remember that women don't just work for men, but also with them, and as their supervisor. If the alpha were my boss, it would be easier to take. If I were his boss . . . I'd probably be firing his alpha a*s.
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Let's say however, for whatever reason you found yourself (not through choice) working for a tall, strapping, swaggering and competent alpha with a naughty grin on his face and slightly squinted eyes...
Swagger is a turn off. Slightly squinted eyes?!? - yuk. Nope, not getting me hot.
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Would you, as a woman think of him in a sexual way anyway?
Would that happen whether you wanted it to or not, i.e. would you really have any choice in the matter?
If a man is handsome, I will have an initial physical reaction to his body/face/voice whether he's alpha-ish, shy, gay, or whatever. That is automatic.
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I understand this may sound like a dumb question but as a man, I have no idea what it's like to live inside a woman's body.
The smart guys ask questions. The dumb guys think they've got it all figured out.
