"Would you, as a woman think of him in a sexual way anyway?"
Before I met my husband, the answer would have been yes.
"Would that happen whether you wanted it to or not, i.e. would you really have any choice in the matter?"
Again, the answer would have been, yes.
But since my husband IS that man, and he is in my house every day with that glint in his eye and that swagger in his step, I no longer have sexual thoughts about other males like him.
