Most women might want what DQ describes as the alpha male, but not all. My wife was always turned off by what she describes as alpha male behavior. She's head of a department at work.
Yeah, I'm in the prefer alpha male in bed club. I DON'T prefer it at work though. Totally different situation.
I understand that working for an alpha male is not something you would prefer.
Let's say however, for whatever reason you found yourself (not through choice) working for a tall, strapping, swaggering and competent alpha with a naughty grin on his face and slightly squinted eyes...
Would you, as a woman think of him in a sexual way anyway?
Would that happen whether you wanted it to or not, i.e. would you really have any choice in the matter?
I understand this may sound like a dumb question but as a man, I have no idea what it's like to live inside a woman's body. I would probably learn a thing or two if I could for a while!
best, GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)