Tom-haven't checked in with you for awhile...had a lot going on...H filed for divorce and had papers ent to me in the mail...was here Sunday and I asked him if we were going to talk to kids and he got defensive and said "well, this is what you expected isnt' it?" Several weeks ago after he left, I told him that I choose our marraige, but I would not live in an open marraige and that he would have to choose. Told him I'd give him time to think but would not wait forever...so that was his reason for filing. I wasn't "ready" for that answer so handled in badly but told him that no, that was NOT what I was expecting! He mumbled about thinking the D over. Since, then, I have read a lot on MLC and truly believe that my H is in full blown MLC.
I am recommending to you to view the resources under MLC (if I knew how to post a link to that I would). It sounds like your W may be going thru that also!! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...ue#Post1539436. If that didn't come through, check out Destiny Unknown's thread and it is posted there!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing