I think your friend would remind you DB'ing is about saving YOU. Everything else follows that.
I'm listening closely!
I think one of the hard parts about this limbo, is too much time to think. To get off track.
Thank you GIMA.
Coach told me a story one time that really helped me when I was stuck in limbo. And it had to do with a group of Marines who were pinned down on a beach. The Marines were hiding behind posts on the beachhead. The enemy was shooting bullets that were slowly destroying the posts. The commander came around and tried to get his men to advance forward, towards the firing enemy. He convinced his men to move by telling them that if they remained behind the posts, they would eventually face certain death. If they advanced, they might die, but they had a chance of surviving. Stagnant = death. Advancing = you got a chance.