flowmom,
thank you for pointing that out. I think that Allen has a point however, I do not think my H is a bad father. Yes he is hurting the kids with what he is doing, but as parents we all make mistakes. And yes this is a major one!!

I will be seeing H in an about an hour. At this point I'm hoping he just leaves the house as soon as I get there. Which is what he has been doing when the last two times I've seen him.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10