because i'm sort of the "cause" of the problems/hurt, and yet, he's still reaching out.
Whoa...forgot about this...don't blame yourself alone!
i'm not blaming myself here, OTM. just meant that our M was the thing in his life causing all this hurt and strife, yet he still feels like he can call me up and talk to me about it. it's weird because i feel like i should be the one person he doesn't want to talk to right now. i do not at all blame myself for the situation we're in. i know we both had a hand in getting to this point and i acknowledge my responsibilities and behaviors that were less than favorable...but i by no means accept all the blame here.
Me30 H29 M2.5 T5 H moved out 1/23/2010 H wants signed agreement 3/30/2010 ...feeling hopeless