So things were going OK, some signs that this was going to work and then boom, Friday before Valentines Day I got her phone bill. There is an additional phone on it!
Mate, this sucks.
I'm very sorry, but not surprised, to hear it.
Originally Posted By: OnceBurndened
There hadn't been many calls at all but the fact was " she is a liar" again.
Grrr....
Originally Posted By: OnceBurdened
So I told her- your busted again. Of course she replied your ridiculous. I sent her a copy of the text with the pic of caller id.
Grrr....
Originally Posted By: OnceBurdened
When all this came down I released alot of anger on a punching bag and a wall!
Been there and done that too mate.
The other I smashed the lock/handle mechanism on a bedroom door because my wife still has pictures and DVDs of her OM and trips they took together.
Never was that kind of fella before.
Originally Posted By: OnceBurdened
My D11 asked me what was wrong, during the bout that ensued after recieving the text -I was in a fury and said " Your M has a boyfriend, she has since the middle of summer and many of the things you have heard and seen are because of it. It doesn't mean she doesn't love you it means she doesn't love me. I am going to take care of it as qwikly as I can, so this stops."
You did the right thing.
Your daughter will know the truth eventually whatever happens. It's so much better that you told her yourself whilst at the same time emphasising that she's loved by her parents.
Originally Posted By: OnceBurdened
The Divorce will be final on March 8th!!!
Good.
Originally Posted By: OnceBurdened
Now she is begging and pleading again.
No surprises there.
What is this begging and pleading making you want to do? There may be a lesson for other DBers here.
Stay strong OnceBurdened.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
