No, Flowmom has to do what SHE thinks is best. Since this site is not an archival source but one that operates in "real time" I simply was stating my POV.
Confronting her H will do no good as he seems to lack the emotional maturity to really understand WHY it is an issue. And that is not something she can help him with. But IMO the constant making of excuses for him (his past, his sleep issues) is not something that is helping HER. And right now it is all about HER.
It is a VERY hard pill to swallow but sometimes the WAS is simply a jerk. A childish, immature, emotionally stunted jerk who stomps their feet when things don't pan out as expected. And sometimes there really *is* a problem. Either scenario belong to Flo's H, not Flo so the constant trying to "figure it out" is not good IMO (which is simply that and certainly nothing more).
