because i'm sort of the "cause" of the problems/hurt, and yet, he's still reaching out.
Whoa...forgot about this...don't blame yourself alone! My W's self-esteem/depression issues have been a real hurt and yes, had it not been I MAY have developed love a long time ago. Then again, maybe not. Also, my overreactions and lack of attention to her have made things much worse.
We are both on the ship - to sink, or swim. If we sink, we pray. The coast guard comes and we get reeled in to improve our live and live by God's messengers.