Too Late For Us?

[mrbt]

Hi All. Am I being too nice?

Things having been going fairly well recently. Last night we had dinner together at her place and then watched television. When spend time together, she usually sits in the recliner and I sit on the sofa. Last night, about half way through the show we were watching, She got up and sat close to me on the sofa. It was nice; like old times.

Today she was moody and irritated. She told me to stop being nice to her - or stop doing nice things (cannot recall her words exactly). I wasn't doing anything out of the ordinary. In this instance, I took the trash out (I was leaving and would drive by the dumpster on my way out of the complex).

I am not sure what to make of this. Is she pulling back because she let her guard down last night? Is this feeling guilty because I am still being nice (being myself) as she proceeds with her divorce plan? Do I need to avoid anything that might be perceived at nice or considerate? Do I need to back off and entirely?