Yeah, but he still is very distant. We talked, texted a bit tonight...actually right around S's bed time. I have to take my time to talk to him, but he can't for me... Anyway more talk about his stupid tests. I have finals this week and a new trimester to prepare for, plus a son to take care of and make sure he goes on the potty, a house to shovel, and clean and...well you all understand, and he complains about his job. I said it would all be good and let him know I have confidence in his ability to teach. He said thanks

He brought up getting boxes so I asked if he knew where he was moving to, he said he didn't know. He is going to wait until after next week, and it might not be enough time if he doesn't come home (which I doubt more and more will happen and I don't want him saying the weekend of, Oh I am coming home), most apartment complexes need a little more than a week's notice, but that is his problem, not mine. He also said he hung out with OW on Saturday after I asked again. Sunday he was so sick so he stayed in bed all day. Must be nice to not have to do anything but stay in bed when you have a head ache....like I have had all week.

Last thing with H, I was on FB and was looking at stuff when I saw one of his old friends posted some stuff that was to say the least questionable. Definitely some allusions to past times doing things that should not have been done. I was texting H at the time and just told him that he might want to remove it before others saw it and asked questions. He did and I just left it at that. He never said sorry or thank you or anything. Just continued with the conversation.

S had another accident free day so I am happy. This potty thing is getting easier each day. : ) Soon off to a bath because I have a headache and a very tight back.

Feeling kind of hopeless and neglected, but had a good night with S and only a little farther to go. (also PMS so definitely playing with the hormones and emotions)


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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