I guess from reading this I am not sure if you are sad that you went ahead and just forced the issue ? or if you feel that you should have gone a tad slower to see if you could allow her the space and time to get through the fog?
M 43 W 43 S15 S 12 D 10 ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009) Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010. Sep as of 07/14/2010 W moving out 07/31/2010 No OM confirmed ( yet)