I can see how that would be stressful for him, but still like you said, his whole marriage and family are on the line too. Him waiting until after the tests isn't going to give much time for him to decide and you to plan, but i guess we just deal with what we are given. But at least he was responsive to you this morning, which is definite improvement over his ignoring phase.
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