Hi Aver, Right, isn't it unreal how reality is? I guess my last hope is to convey the Aver/PearlHarbor attitude in my emails since that is the only C I have w H. Don't have many illusions beyond that.
I need to check in on your thread. I know & you probably do too that you will handle whatever happens, it's just a process getting to that point. If I think back to 6 months ago about how I felt about H leaving the M, (world is ending vs. I'm sad but I'll survive) it's all been baby steps getting there.
I decided yesterday to re-define my goals. I havent' really focused much on the goals, 180s, GAL lately. So here they are:
To become or become more: 1. Independent 2. Strong 3. Assertive
Before I met H I would go on vacations by myself, out wherever I wanted. M shouldn't change the person you are but I think I got in a rut of being with him all the time.
Been getting slammed at work again so I haven't been on the boards much the past few days. My home computer goes back to the dinosaur age, so it's alway more tempting to post at work! Also, you may also relate: I'm beat after work & sometimes it's hard to get on & post end of day.
Don't worry - I'll totally keep in touch w you! I hope you're doing great today! Thanks for stopping by. Talk soon! ((())))
