newmama,

I have been reading your thread and think that in regards to what you are doing you should continue on the path you are on. Remember that these things take time to REALLY see some changes. I think your husband is almost intrigued by you again which is a good thing so don't slip back into texting him or planning outings with him (even if it is your son) just yet. A man wants what he can't have and he needs to see you continue to be fabolous and get more interested in you while at the same time he also needs to be feeling nervous about you possibly not being an option for him. Keep doing your outings, GAL, cooking, and being mysterious. He isn't quite where you need him to be yet IMO but his eagerness to hang out with you and son, responding to texts does show him being interested. Don't show your hand too soon...keep your cards (feelings/emotions) close.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo