FIB I agree that acceptance is not something that any of us do easily. However, as someone whose XH has married his bimbo and fathered a child with her what I wish is that they (and especially OW) would concentrate on the child they have together instead of insisting that OW now have equal say in what happens to my children. The word stepmother is becoming somewhat an expletive in this household at least.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15