Does it help you to think the fact that he is going through so many women...that it is so much proof its not about the WOMEN OR YOU...he is messed up....I think when there is only one OW and then they even marry them you are left with...wow they must be in that I cant live without you , where have u been all my life....soul mate mentality....

but when they just go thru many woman......they are truly looking for something they will never find.....

This is a hard road either which way, we have all lost our families and nothing will ever be the same again......it is what it is.....

I try and just focus on what I do have left.....and be the best person you can be and heal....it is so terrible to feel like the one you built your life with would do anything for as chosen to discard u....your mind no comprendo