Well it's official,we finished moving xw stuff back to the house and have been sorting things out.We even have been touching and joking around about everything.I did tell her last night that if something bothered her to talk about it and we would really work on our communication,she thought that was a good idea.It's funny because we haven't discussed $ or how any of thats going to work. She pays for alot already I just want to make sure that everything isn't coming from me.Maybe I am gun shy but she has as much to prove as I do. Thanks to everyone that has listened to me rant and rave over the last 3 years,I know that we would'nt be together if it wern't for this board.