You know what guys? I was in the afraid to stand up club too. Ruined...Mb...I have watched this man deny a "friendship" (just found this out a couple weeks ago btw) and I knew in my heart all along that there was an EA/OW.
Everyone has been giving me 2x4's about what I'm going to do. I wasted time "trying understand him" and being supportive when I should have just went with my heart and threw him out 2 months ago!...BUT I was scared and didn't wanna push a D.
Can't be scared anymore. Now he is blatantly texting her and has no regard for our family. He never calls while out of town and has disprespected not only me but my kids too.
So....guess it's time to say what the hell right? What can he do...D me? How unlucky I would be...to lose a cheating husband!
Like Robx says, "do not go against reality"....and the reality is my H doesn't care about me.
Luv
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
