My (x)W's "coming to" was not an all blissful, brids singing in the distnace, running across the prarie patch gazing in each other's eyes' event either. But it has grown to a point that it feels that way.
She the same, came out of nowhere, althought we were nowhere near as close as giving each other foot messages, in fact, the only massages that involved feet, would be one of us "messageing" the other's rear end with our feet in a not so loving way.
And then, all of the sudden, a truce was called, and she did the same, wanted to talk. Threw all of lifes challenges she'd been facing out there, professed her feelings for me and all. We too said, take it slow and see where it goes.
Well, merely half the time into what we said would be acceptable to live together again, we've been staying together, granted to get through problems with the kdis who are much younger than yours, but none the less, looking at getting a home and the whole nine yards.
And all it took was that one moment to wake up. So I too am not a firm believer in things "building" to something grand at the beginning. Some get that, some don't. You just take what you can get.
But, also keep your defenses up and let him know they are up. The rest comes like it did way back when, naturally.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
