[quote]Now are you sure you want to move out of your parents to "be strong" or is subconsciously to be on your own so your WH will feel bad for you? Sorry for the harsh question.
before i quit this stream, this is a very good question and i have had to think more about it... i think if i am in the apartment by myself (not with folks) 1. i might prove to myself that i can live by myself for a while at least(of course, when i am heavily, heavily pregnant and if my husband is still AWOL, i will happily go back to the folks - gotta be realistic) and 2. if he does stick around my city and not find work interstate, then he will be more likely to be wondering what i am doing becuase, let's face it, I will probably be forcing myself into a more independent, therefore alluring, lifestyle. Staying with my parents has an infantile quality to it, if you see what I mean. At the same time, I know I can't be superwoman and i need to also consider my needs. I just have a feeling I will regret it if I don't give living independently a go, at the very least. hugs xx
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
