Allen- i appreciate all the advice you've given me. I share your same sentiments and values of M. I understand that A's will hoodwink the wayward spouse- I also understand the wayward fog and all the shape-shifting backdrop that is the marital history- even worse, I have experienced the venom spew from W and the piercing lies-
I should run the other way, but I don't want to- I have outed what I can, from here I will continue to protest when it is not going out of my way, I will establish boundaries, and I will keep away from the pain.
I just don't have it in me to fight like this anymore- the more I do the more stressed W and I become. The more my name is dragged through the mud as a crazy STBX.
I know who my friends are now- and I know that W and MIL are not, for MIL has been dosed with the same lies as everyone else.
Help me build a plan-
My Goal- to allow W's fantasy to fall apart, to have her experience a crisis, and see OM fall from his perch.
