Originally Posted By: CityGirl
The WAS mindset is fantasy (lifelong friends with spouse, GF, no consequences). The quickest fantasy they drop is the lifelong friends one.. the affair usually "wins".


CG, absolutely. H. is very, very foggy, it seems. I'm taking the hard line w/him. I think he is starting to get that if he chooses GF he looses W. What comes next? I haven't the foggiest ... wink

M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

Soapie:
1: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized1
2: http://tinyurl.com/vulcanized2
3: http://tiny.com/vulcanized3