My reconciliation wasnt exactly all hunky dory lovey wovey.. H came back and kept staying longer and longer, even had a raging tantrum one day and went home and came back again a whole five hour round trip!
Its not how it happens or why that is important its the how you go about it from now on.. were financially a bit stuck at the moment but we are keeping as individual as possible but joint as well.. once we are financially secure again we can make the changes we wanted to make, but they are talked about as in the things for the future..
Ok so its not all hearts and roses and at the beginning I wondered if letting H siddle back in again was the right thing but he is gradually coming up trumps day by day so who knows
Anyway good luck hope you sort things out between you.
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!