Ruined,
I thought he had filed too, but he just hired a L and had paper work drawn to be ready to file.

My fear of D and being alone has stopped me from being strong and standing up for myself. I think I'm finally ready to say enough is enough with him. I still don't want D, however if that is what he chooses, I know I will be ok.

Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10