Hi, just lurking...but wanted to say that perhaps your H is wanting to reconcile because he has finally experienced "rock bottom." ??? I am inspired to read that your reconciliation did not come the way it seems like it should (in the movies, etc.)

As for you sounding "demanding," a tricky part for BOTH of you is probably getting used to not thinking "independently" as you merge your lives again, don't you think?

Stay positive...remember MWD emphasizes keeping hopeful when wanting a relationship to work! I look forward to following your thread/life!


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004