I only plan on telling my H "when you are done with OW and agree to NC we can talk" this tonight if he tries to bring up M or D talk. He hasn't tried to bring these up for last 2 nights. I think if I just blurt this out, he will take it as me attacking him. What does everyone think about that? Say it no matter what or wait for him to start the M or D talk?
I think you know your H better than we do. Since he is going to a therapy appt. on Thursday, that might motivate him to bring up talk about your M. So waiting isn't the end of the world. All that waiting does is prolong your present state, you know?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004