ThisCan'tBTheEnd please know that there are men out there that feel just like you do . Everything your are saying sounds like what I am going through with my EW.
It's so true that they don't even think about us and/or our marriage. That is how it is with my EW. Leaves me feeling like just a sperm donor.
I just try to focus on my kids and give them the best I can.
When I leave my EW alone she comes back to me with an email in a day and is all warm and fuzzy. Then I am warm and fuzzy back and she just goes cold. It's exhausting. In 2 years we have not gone more that one day without contact with each other !!
Me/W: 46/36 D7.6/S6 T/M: 7.5/6.5 Bomb 12/05/07 D final: 03/03/09