You are doing a wonderful job. You GET it. Keep on this path. Keep the mystery going. Stay strong. Men respond to a woman like you that get strong. Good job.
Thank you Gucci. Rationally, I think I'm on the right course. Emotionally, tho, ugh! I really appreciate you stopping by. I read your post to others and try to apply relevant advice to my sitch. You give great advice, so I'm pleased you're here.
Originally Posted By: talia
Ruined, I'm sorry you have been SO alone on here! I think the reason you aren't getting the feedback is because you are doing SO well. I know that doesn't help you... but at least you know you aren't being maliciously ignored.
You are doing GREAT! My suggestion would be to continue going dark - that's working well for you; but also to try and stop reading H's behavior. Do you have your goals - what are they? Post them here and then we can help you evaluate his responses based on your goals - action oriented review. The rest is just speculation.
You ARE seeing results. Now its time to pin down what you want out of this.
I'll stop back - -promise!
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Talia, thank you. I'll admit, I did feel a little bit ignored. But I didn't think it was b/c I was doing good.
I've packed my solution journal already, moving next week. I will have to sit down later [prolly Thurs, busy next 2 days] and write out my goals. Didn't meet any of the ones I'd hope to accomplish last 6 weeks.
Have been trying to figure out next steps after move. And also plant as much doubt as possible.
Flow, I saw this thread, just have to figure out what my goals are going to be. As I prepare for my move, I spend hours and hours reading the boards. Seeing how others are doing, and planning next attack. This is war! I'm fighting for my H, and hopefully the stronger, better M that comes after.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
I read your post to others and try to apply relevant advice to my sitch. You give great advice, so I'm pleased you're here. 
But I didn't think it was b/c I was doing good.
