Your 2 cents worth is a million dollar answer. Randy has made great headway and the things he has said have had an effect. But this is definitely the time to back off.
Randy, your wife has given every indication of her intentions. She is moving home. She acknowledges that you are working your ass off. This is good stuff. As I have told you all along...Be Cool!
I just found this.
Chinese proverb: One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.